Am I expanding my vocabulary? Am I using words correctly? Do I try not to swear? Do I avoid excessive exaggeration? Do I keep my emotions under control? Do I express my emotions enough? Am I honest with people? Do I always tell the truth? Do I thank and apologise properly? Am I learning other languages? Do I keep myself looking respectable? Am I modest in my behaviour? Am I conscious of my body language? Am I good enough at public speaking? Do I praise or encourage people enough? Am I avoiding smoking? Am I moderate in drinking alcohol? Am I avoiding drugs? Do I keep my breath and body odour pleasant?
QUESTIONS TO ASK ABOUT ANYTHING A. How does it express itself to its observers? B. What message or meaning does it send to observers? C. How do observers respond to its expressions or messages?